Thursday, August 23, 2012

Once upon a time ...

The beginning

Well, I always appreciated culture in general, always wanted to know various countries, and if I wanted to do that I would have to know at least English, and so, I began a self-study driven and didn’t stop, did some courses, but learned it all by myself (that’s why so many mistakes). Searching some countries to try maybe  an exchange I met Holland, I found a wonderful country, architecture, government, language ... So I wanted to know more of this strange language, “Dutch”, a mix of German and English, hard as hell, I still went ahead, until I met a guy there from Holland to help me, but he was very unsympathetic, just not learning anything at all.
And then some night trying to kill the boredom went to  a site where people around the world can share interests and knowledge through a "Linguistic Exchanges," without leaving their respective countries) and changed my profile saying I also learn  Dutch. That same day a guy from Belgium called me, I thought "WTF for what would I want to talk Belgian (what an ignorance)" still I accepted to talk to him, and he patiently explained to me that in Belgium there are three official languages  Dutch (Flemish), French and German wowwwwwwwww what a shame (pff belgian is not a language, haha), laughing and talking about everything and nothing, we start knowing more and more of each other, friendship grew and the willingness to spend more time together too , until the day he taught me the meaning of IK HOU VAN JOU * ------ *, should have been a month later we started talking it happened. It all started so natural, nobody wanting anything or anyone with ulterior motives, but we had so much in common, he liked me in the way I am, and I had the same feeling for him. He is so handsome * - *, and I think that beauty comes from inside and from outside, I have never met someone so sweet, kind, willing to do anything for me, responsible, cultured and among other things I could write about him till my fingers hurt but I won’t . Since we met there not even  minute that we had nothing to talk about … , sometimes  12 hours straight talking, the entire weekend, sleeping with the webcam on, ahh well, things that make him unique in 7 billion people . Because of all that, we know we want this and expect this to be real soon.


                    XoXo

35 comments:

  1. Hey guys! I work for a national television show in New York and we would like to talk with you guys and see if you would want to come on our show either in person or via Skype. Please email me when you can and I will give you guys more details!

    Thanks!
    Christie Bear
    Christiembear@gmail.com

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  2. honey, I hope both of you not doing this for popularity. marriage is once in a live time. I really wish the best for both of you. God bless!

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    1. The last thing we planned was popularity. Since the beginning the only thing we wanted was to be able and to meet be happy together. Surely I wouldn't be so foolish to do that with god's special gift. I'm sure Kenny is the right man for me and I'll do anything to make him feel special every day.
      Thank you , God bless you too.

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    3. oh wow, that's inspiring *--* were you in a long-distance relationship too or ...?
      Thank you we wish you a good luck too :D

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  3. Why not actually meet him first like normal people? So silly.

    Obvious publicity stunt, with a blog and everything. I hope you make a lot of money out of this.

    If you're actually serious, I hope it works out the way you imagine, but you really should have just taken your time. People get married after years of being together.

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    1. Don't really know what kind of advantages you could have doing this :P
      as we already said a thousand times it was a familiar blog and suddenly every world came to visit us we even don't know how ... wasn't up to us. But If you still think so, who am i to say the contrary, we rly don't care to outsider's opinion

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    2. crazy that people really think we started this blog for publicity...
      we ll just continue this for our family and friends..as it was intended from the start..
      getting more views wont change a thing about what we are doing

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    3. It's a shame that people cannot believe in "fairy tales" anymore. But I do! I met my fiance' playing an MMORPG 4 years ago; we became best friends right away. We met for the first time in person a year and a half ago, and everything we had already been feeling blossomed. Online, all you have are your words, your feelings, so you explore them to the fullest. It's not silly at all.

      Best wishes Jessica and Kenny! May your fairy tale last forever :)

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  4. I think you are both very sweet kids and you will be very happy together!

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  5. Jess & Kenny,
    Regardless of what people say, I'm a big believer in love so I say go for it. Only you know yourselves in your hearts how you feel. Good luck!

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    1. Thank you . It's very good to hear, because there are many people trying to discourage us, but out love is stronger and people like you always make us happy. :D Good luck in life you too.

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  6. I wish the two of you the best of luck. I hope you enjoy your first meeting together in October, and get to know each other better face to face. It's an exciting time for you both :)

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    1. For sure exciting ... we're counting the minutes , we rly waited long for this meeting and we'll enjoy as much as possible. Thank you.

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  7. congradulations kenny and jess. im very happy for you two and wish you all the best.

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    1. Thank you John, It's always great to hear such things (:

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  8. This sort of thing happens often. Why the fuck is this news?

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    1. Oh Wow you must be a very busy person then, commenting every time "this sort of thing" is posted in the news.

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  9. o amor não tem barreiras ... sorte e bênçãos

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  10. I wrote something yesterday but it disappeared :( I just wanted to tell you both to go for it and enjoy!! My husband and I met online in 2007 accidentally and became the best of friends. He was in California and I was in Australia! We also had decided to marry before we met. There is something so beautiful and amazing about knowing someone before you complicate it other things like lust! We married in 2009 and are still happily together to this day, living in Australia. It's been one of the most honest and true relationships I've ever had. Wishing you both all the best xxx

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    1. Awww really inspiring ... Thank you for sharing story with us!!!!

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  11. Still a better love story than Twilight

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  12. This is a great story. There will always be haters and people that have a problem. Don't worry about them, love has no rules and no guidelines. As long as you are both happy. I truly wish you all the best, your faith is inspiring.

    Nic

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  13. I wish you the best! Fight for what you guys feel and believe! Do not mind about what other people think about you... Face the problems together and be really happy together !
    xoxo

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  14. Your story is inspiring im with you uys all the way!! i go on here everyday to see the post and i will be here wen you guys met for the first time so please keep us fan posted!!

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    1. haha we are not famous, so no fans. Good you appreciate our story and thanks for being always here and making part of this :D

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  15. greetings, love and respect from India.

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  16. Guys, best wishes! It's so cool to remind that real love is always there... and that there is no special way it will come up to us... because love is everywhere.. :) Good luck <3

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  17. Best wishes guys!
    You are showing the world and to all of us that love doesn't come up always on the street, in cafe or sth like that.. love is everywhere! Think you'll agree... Take care of each other and be brave. Love ya <3

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  18. thanks for sharing..

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  19. hi Jess and Kenny,

    I perfectly understand your situation, because i have similar one, my bf (40yrs) and I (34yrs), we are 8030 km. far from each others, we met online in the end of 2011 and until this year November 2012 we met in real, after about one year meeting in skype.

    its was so nice and little strange to be able to touch and feel the person you love by the screen, the one who you talk every day, you spend so much time and finally you are there, together!

    i think if one person can stay with other for so long time chatting like 2-4 hrs, its for sure you have some things in common, nice feelings that few people can understand. Many times, i touched his face on the screen dreaming the day to be in real.

    For us, it was very nice time, even we only stayed together for 8 days, we are planning second real meeting by December or February according to our working schedule and also, talking about marriage. The feelings in real were awesome, much better that online! its was the confirmation of our online feelings.

    of course, nothing is perfect, it can be somethings that you don't like in real but they are meaningless, the most important is to keep and show your self as the more real you are, no faking things we are not, then when you are in real life, nothing will change.

    Congratulations for your relation, it needs time, confidence and love to keep things working,

    My best wishes

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    1. hi there, nice story. where are you both from?
      sad you only could spend short time togetehr.
      I'm in Brasil for a month and I'm enjoying every second of it.
      Here too, being together in real made things intenser.
      Hope to hear from you soon

      Best wishes for you too

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  20. Hi Kenny and Jessica :)

    I'm having a long distance relationship too and we met online. I'm 16 and he's 19. I have to tell that he is also belgian too :D he lives in Wommersom. We have been together for almost 2 months. We are 7114 miles apart and keep dreaming of meeting each other some day and btw i live in Indonesia. Your story is such a inspiration for me :)

    i can't wait to hear about you guys more :)

    Love
    Shelley



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