Weekends are great

Here were are again

Being sunday 21.00 here only 16.00 in Brazil ( isn't fair:( better there was no time difference:d)
Another great weekend spend together ( like always).

So what is new...This weekend my Brazillian family started preparing their house to recieve me.
They are so sweet..even started painting their home ( me and my big mouth about it looking like a clinic with the white walls :o actually I liked it, looks very bright)
Anyway they are doing a really nice job and I feel very welcome.(actually couldn't feel more welcome at all.)
While doing webcam with my girl, I saw them painting. They look so happy and excited, really nice.
But saw something not so nice aswell...Anderson doing dangerous stunts ( a chair on a desk isn't a replacement for a stair...waaaaaaaay too dangerous:p be carefull up there)

Oh and mom being the ventsystem making sure the smell of the paint goes the other way:d
they are doing teamwork over there :d

little time for me to get there, sure the smell will be gone:d

I'm going to do some google streetview in Brazil now:d

Groetjes

Sex from a distance 2. (+18)

Well, I think it is totally unnecessary. Being in a relationship from a distance means waiting  and respecting and I honestly don’t think so respectful expose this much on the internet. If your partner really likes you he/she  will wait no matter how long it takes. Sex isn't the thing that comes first in a relationship, even less  online sex, besides being dangerous (not because of your partner, but nowadays the accounts can be hacked easily) I think there are other ways to prove that there is trust in the relationship.

Well this is MY opinion, doesn’t mean you have to be mad at me for what I say or think that I would judge you if you do that, absolutely not, it is natural for some people, but not so for others.

As Kenny said in the previous post everything has to be in respect (doesn’t mean I agree with the things he wrote),  but in the end the wait is always worth it.

Even so, as I am a democratic person, I made a short guide but can serve as an initiation for all:

1) The game that Kenny talks about in the previous post.

Multiplayer sex online game.

2) Play truth or dare:

Online truth or dare.

3) Clone yourself (boys) (makes me scared) :

This make your **** own kit has everything you need to make a soft rubber **** of your hard ***– with optional vibrations to please her like never before. Just add water to the molding powder, insert your **** into the warm mixture, then slide off the mold and pour in the liquid rubber. You’ll have a highly-detailed replica of your own **** in just a few hours, for DOUBLE the frisky fun! (HINT: Insert the vibe to make your “clone” BUZZ!) Great instructions and 24-hour hotline make it so easy to make your own ***. Latex-free, hypo-allergenic and safe to use on any ****.

4) Send panties:

He will be completely surprised when he pulls a very romantic heart shaped pair of sexy red panties out of his black envelope. Who would send him such a thing? You have his complete attention!

5)  Generator of erotic stories.

HoochyMail is the first internet service that allows you to create a thrilling, explicit erotic fantasy about yourself and your special someone, doing all sorts of exciting and sexy things, in all sorts of exotic and interesting locales!

                                                                                                              XoXo

Sex on a distance

Hi everyone,

The poll is finished and, like I guessed, we have to write about sex on a distance.
Sure for all you naughty readers this will come disappointing because we won't be writing from our experience.

So here it goes:

Having sex or naughty things when being far apart. Like in every relationship this should be only done when really loving and trusting each other.
I'm sure like always this starts with little things... seeing the other one with less clothes ( doesn't mean naked :d) Or doing pictures for the other...there aren't actual limits.

People think bad about having these kind of things...but actually when being in a long distance relationship, this is part of getting to know the other person.
Sharing intimate things.Is about trust, and love. ( I don't think it's easier to do all that because of being far away from the other)

Alright so you're in the same situation as us (Great relationship, All the trust in the world, Loving like crazy.....) You both feeling it's time to explore the intimate side of the relationship. Trust and respect are the key...only do what you feel like doing. Take it step by step... like in real there is no need to rush things.
Respect means if you want to go further than the other half, respect that...don't push to do and let him/her get used to be exposed.

So in what ways you can explore the intimate side...
Naughty talks are a great start. Easy to do, and is a great way to get to know what the other wants.
Besides naughty talks there are hot pictures...When both are doing this is great for sure..shows you are trusting the other half.
And than there is live footage...Using the webcam.Can be in a play full way. Everything is possible but don't rush things.

Oh and from someone around, I heard there is a game on Internet...where you can invite the other one and have sex pressing a button what you like to do and the pass it should be (fast and slow)

So that's about it...
Sorry for you naughty readers out there, expecting details from us:d

Only thing I can say to couples in a relationship: Take it easy, trust and respect, take a walk on the path of intimacy together.

September should end

Hi there,

September is closing, knowing that time will go pretty fast from now on.
Makes me happy to know that soon I'll be with my girl.

I planned on getting the license today but something went wrong:o
So another week untill I get it.(need a new picture for it)
the vaccination is waiting for me in the fridge:p just have to take it with me to the doctor and let him put the needle in my arm ( hope it's not done in ass :d probably not:d I'm a big boy now)

Oh and I still need to get an appointment for the vaccination for yellow fever:d
little more time to do all :d
No need to stress at all.
Wishing I was there already...the wait is hard...
everyday I want to wake up seeing the calandar saying 31 october...
Will happen soon
Untill that time I will continue spending my time with my beautifull girl.

I love you princess <3


Groetjes

Feliz Aniversário BENNY!!!!

Feliz Aniversário, Benny, que Deus te abençõe com muita saúde, paz, amor e união familiar. Que possamos formar uma grande família feliz!
São os sinceros votos de sua família brasileira : Anderson, Tânia, Jéssica e Pedro.

Hartelijk Gefeliciteerd Daddy Benny!!!!!

Today should be holiday for being a day so special …  daddy Benny's B-day yaaaay. Wish I could give you a hug and three kisses (as you do in Belgium) and if I had any money I would buy a gift too,  but  be happy, at least I didn’t record a video singing  lang zal ze leven to you as I did to Kenny , haha, yes, after I sent it,  he explained that I was singing the female version instead of lang zal hij leven : D Well,   language barrier’s accident , believe me, I was not calling your son of homosexual.  Well, back to the main subject I would like to wish you Daddy many years of life full of happiness and peace, I wish that all your dreams  renew  today  and God keep blessing you.  Above all I would like to thank by what you have done to me: Kenny  (hey, you and Rita did perfectly).  Having you and your family as my family, is a great gift.


                                                                             XoXo

Day by day

Hi people,

Day by day we are getting closer to turn this dream into reality.
All this waiting isn't making it easier.
When you think about it...how hard can it be to wait 35 days when you are already waiting this long?
Well it seems that these days are passing slower and slower.
You know the feeling when you're looking forward to having something and even it takes little time to get it, still it makes you go insane to wait that long.
Is like christmas... wanting to peek what is inside the present before it's really time to unpack:d

Tomorrow will be the day I'll get my internatioal license...
I have the vaccination at home..friday I'll let it done by the doctor (tempting to do myself, but I better not:d)
Oh and I saw the poll will end tomorrow and you naughty people choose the post about sex:o(shame on you:d)
But that has to wait for tomorrow:d

Not everyday is the same, sometimes we have stress or something else happens...
Just we're strong together being by eachothers side..
we took our time to build this, and nothing in the world could break that down.

Groetjes

Realizing ....

These days we had many distractions with all this attention on us, and suddenly, I'm here, wondering  that the penny hasn’t dropped yet for me. I'm at 1 month and 1 week to reach what I dreamed every single  day of my life since I met Kenny.
 Dreams were just dreams for me ... you dream and nothing else happens, until now that  I'm truly having a dream coming true.
With the first preparations for Kenny’s arrival happening, every emotion came to the fore, dammit, it's the time of my life,  the chance of my life with the love of my life...  What  always seemed so unreal to me is about to happen ... I can hardly believe.

Who has been battered by life finds it easier to believe in practical things, or just accept what you are offered but I’m giving myself for the first time a chance to believe in my own fairytale, that has been built as all others ...   through many obstacles.

                                                                                                                               XoXo

Strange and euhm well stranger

So here I am again.

Well if all the newspapers aren't strange enough,something else happened today...
something well..stranger:d

Being at work,fixing the little trains I received a phone call...(well almost getting used to unknown numbers calling me:d).
Answering the call surprised me a little.
This time no newspaper but a radio station named MNM...oh goddddddd.
First they asked me if I had time to answer some questions ( I didn't have much time, today was hectic at work).
But they said it was not for now but later on the day, live on radio :o:o:o
I didn't know if I would be free at that moment, so I asked them to phone me a little before.

So they did 17.00 my phone ringing saying they would call again 17.20 to get me live in the show asking some questions. He right away said he already told on radio that I would tell the story (oh god:p no way back at all)

Me being on the road in a traffic jam ( I know never phone and drive at the same time, but this was an emergency :d)
I receive the call..little longer on hold, listening to the show, then it was my time:d
Actually are all the same questions we are receiving from the papers and all:p
They as well thought we would get married the first month I'm in Brazil, so explained for the marriage we have to wait little longer but yes we are engaged.
Like almost everyone ( besides the haters we have more lovers) they liked our story as well.

They wishing us good luck ( we'll be great for sure, nothing will stop us).

For all you readers here, tomorrow I'll contact the radio channel to ask for the record of the talk so you can all listen.

Groetjes

Two more papers

Hi there,

Today another newspaper..well actually two

 Source : Het Belang Van Limburg

Click here to read the article straight on the website.
Source : www.terra.com


Groetjes

"Sleeping together"

Today I'll talk about something that makes me very happy ... sleep with Kenny.
 I know that it sounds strange to you, knowing  we have 9000km between us, but we do try to act as much as possible to what a normal couple would do.
We've been together a long time and have enough intimacy to do it (Including respect too. Respect enough  that anyone could come anytime in our rooms and find nothing wrong).
 People ask me, "What's the fun  in leaving the webcam on when you are sleeping? After all you won’t  see anything." Well, the "fun" is the fact that you can wake up at any hour of the night and see the person you both want / love right there, sleeping like it was right there by your side , you think about what it is dreaming  and finally, when you wake up, it is looking at you as you were the most beautiful thing in the world, haha, even looking horrible.
I guess when you really love someone,  even the smallest things make you so happy, for example: Kenny calling me princess,( haha this is so cute), Kenny singing  songs in portuguese to me with his hard Flemish accent , taking pictures of places around him and even trying to speak my last name …  sounds totally weird but  I really think it all is so lovely.
Yeah I know when we're in love we act like fools ... but I love this feeling, and I want to keep it forever.

                                                                                                 XoXo

Finally, short but correct :P

Click here to read the article straight on the website.

Source : http://www.mamanieuws.be/

                                                                              XoXo

Another truth discovered ...

Holy crap, this newspaper says that we're getting married on October 31. How come? Nobody warned me !!!!  didn’t even had time to prepare myself …  where’s going to be our wedding? right there at the airport? Pfffffff, that's ridiculous, the newspapers should give us more details about our own wedding. I'll sue them to schedule our wedding and didn’t even have the decency to let us know.

Our parents are going to kill us.

Click here to read the article straight on the website.

Source : http://www.xnet.co.il/

                                                                  XoXo

I found out the truth .... :O

I have a secret to tell you ... Kenny  isn't called Kenny in real , :O,  this is just a pseudonym to hide his true identity: Kevin De Boel, yesssss, I found out the truth through this newspaper, incredible as I shared a relationship with "Kevin" all this time without knowing his real identity and even worse, he lives in Neerpelt always thought it was Overpelt.
Oh My Gosh, is that Kevin  The Superman disguised as Clark Kent (Kenny)?
Thanks for letting me know the truth Mr. journalist.

Click here to read the article straight on the website.

Source : http://www.nieuwsblad.be/

This revelation will shock the world. :O

                                                            XoXo

Not all is done yet

Hi there,

Thought about writing a little post for today..
So here we are 39 days left (and couple of hours).
Time ticking by too slow in my opinion.(all will be faster once the counter hits 30)

With that little time left, we still don't have a place to stay( apartment, hotel or something) after our trip to that amazing place: o
Guess we'll have to start a search pretty soon for that, since it should be a nice place to stay 2 weeks.
Didn't do that today because of my internet being a pain in the *** :d

Belgium starting to be very cold (it changes soooooo fast, not having time to adapt that much)
even the sun was shining today( already dark here:( )

Oh yes and the rental car too:d but that can be done in very short time before we really need it.(hope I'll get something nice to drive around, and I hope I won't crash on the crazy roads in Brazil:d)

After reading my own post ( yes checking for errors that I don't know of since my english isn't that great:p), I'm thinking I should make a list of what still needs to be done.

Pen and paper ready....


Groetjes

Who said we'll marry now?

 Click here to read the article straight on the website.

Source : http://articles.mamaslatinas.com/

Love is all we need

I'd like to say some things that might not be so clear to people who don't know us very well. Well, all this publicity that came to us so far happened in a way that we have no idea, suddenly we were in the newspapers, We created this blog to share our story with our families, friends and people who are in this same situation . We had an average of 100 views per day, now we have probably an average of 5,000 visitors per day but doesn't change anything at all, we keep doing same things as we always did, truely be in the spotlight was never our intention.

 When we made a commitment as serious as an engagement is, we just wanted to show each other how much we are into this relationship with commitment, integrity and loyalty.

We'll get married YES, but not for now, before any decision like that I want to go to college and get my degree, as you probably already know we're young and we need to have enough stability to hold a marriage, even more an international marriage , where a part will have to relinquish its country, its family and so on.

We have no ambition to appear in any other media or take advantage of it. If it happens, ok, we have no control over that anyway, but for sure we aren't such ignorants who will waste a good chance if it comes to us to make us closer.

We know we have people who support and encourage us and people who criticize, actually all this just serves more as a motivation,as more they doubt that we will stay together as more our desire to prove them are wrong increases.

All we want is to keep our way as we always did (as hard as it has been already) make our long-awaited meeting and find a way to be together.

I am completely in love with Kenny, I have him on my mind 24/7 and I would not trade any of it for an easy way out, I really believe he came into my life as a present from God, and I believe he has the same feeling about me.

Therefore we would like to thank the thousands of people who come to join us in this journey, sharing with us their stories with happy endings (some not), people who send us nice messages wishing good luck and even those who don't believe in our love, this is all very important to us .

 for the people who ask when our next video will come, 31/10 obviously, we couldn't stop writing and sharing with you all this very important moment to us.

I sincerely hope that this blog besides tell our story serves as an example for people with goals in life, as difficult and time consuming this objective to be, believe me all depends on you. I found my life's goal nine thousand kilometers away,

but I have no doubt that I will achieve this goal because I have full support of my family, of my friends, faith in God and my schatje, who is doing everything to make it real and struggling as much as I do.
 Isn't easy nor fast, but as hard the battle is, as  joyful the victory will be.

                                                                   XoXo

Only 40 days left

Hi there,

So right now 40 more days left ( almost 39:d) to our meeting and our little "honeymoon" :d
After spending days with family we're off on our little trip together.
Really looking forward to go to that amazing place.(you'll see pictures don't worry..just no name yet)

Besides that, when coming back to her place, we'll have our rental car..ready for action:d visiting a lot of different place (mom even made a list..so sweet)

Oh yeah when speaking about it...I still need my license for in Brazil :o I better do next week.

And then thinking again I still need my vaccinations.
Better I stop thinking:d

Belgium already starting to get very cold...wishing I was in Brazil already.
Will be great spending the time with my beautifull girl.

Groetjes

Pfff ... half of what is written here isn't true ;)

90,000???????????? WTF

The news will end soon :P

Click here to read the article straight on the website.

Source: http://mastersofbrain.com/

                                                                                     XoXo 

Crazy stuff going on...

Hi there all...a lot more now it seems.

Funny how things go...we started this blog to share our days with family and friends before I get to Brazil.
All of a sudden we have so many views here...
Pretty weird how this went...waking up seeing our story is on some website ( didn't know it was going to happen but alrigh,t one little website isn't so bad),but then more and more websites around the world sharing our story.

Not much will change with all this attention coming to us..never was our intention to have so many views, we just started this to share with our friends and family (maybe few outsiders).

Like I told my girl aswell...we'll just continue the way all was going.
I'm feeling we're on the right track at the right time..
We are walking this path together...side by side and our path will cross on 31 october

 

Groetjes

Romania...

Crazy stuff  all...now even Romanian website talking about us:

 Click here to read the article straight on the website.
Source : http://www.realitatea.net/

Ciao

Click here to read the article straight on the website.
Source: http://attualissimo.it/


                                           XoXo

A different post.

Today I would like to do a different post ...
 not for my dear Kenny, but for the cause of all this,  the one who gave me this life and everything I am and have.
 God has never failed to me. He has been with me in every moment of my life, and even when I thought I was alone  he was there looking at me everytime time and preparing this wonderful person who is
 my beloved Kenny who helped me in the worse moment of my life. I've been through things that I thought I would never overcome ,  but I'm so thankful God sent me a loyal partner for a lifetime.

Sometimes we don't understand God's timing, but don't doubt, your time comes.
 God mean everything in my life even though I don't show it as i should do. I am so grateful for the life I have and all the blessings I receive everyday.  Every day of my life is a miracle.

If you are going through a bad time, Don't worry, God is looking at you right now and  preparing something very special in your life. I say this from my own experience.
 Believe, ask, trust ...

 No matter what your beliefs are ... you are never alone.
 God loves you as a loving father no matter what you do.

God Thank you for all your love and all you have given me, and forgive me for all the times I don't recognize that.             
                                                                                                    XoXo

Guess what ...

Click here to read the article straight on the website.
Source: http://www.bridalguide.com/

                                                                     XoXo

Why don't you believe that Kenny has never been in Belarus?

is it me or they put TEENAGE woman on purpose?

I'm looking horrible in this last pic pfffffffffff

P.S: Belguim???? Is it right?

Click here to read the article straight on the website.

Source: http://www.news.com.au/

                                                                                                        XoXo

Hey i'm 18 ...

How come you calling me woman? as Britney would say I'm Not A Girl, Not Yet A Woman ... so don't call me Brazilian woman ( I cannot live without my mommy yet :D)
And he's not taking me to Europe.

Click here to read the article straight on the website.
Source: http://news.ninemsn.com.au/


                                                                                         XoXo

Little Trip to NY?

Yeah,we received this message today ...
 Well, in my humble opinion this is not feasible now.  First we need to focus on ourselves and make this story go right instead of going around saying  "Hey you, the distance relationships can last a lifetime," well, this is not so.
 I sure would love to travel with Kenny and show people that anything is possible when you have a goal,  but our goal has not been reached yet, therefore I don't think we are ready for such things.
 The only things I want now is enjoy the time that I'm going to have with my love, share it here with you guys every day but without "taking advantage" of the situation,
 I don't want our history to be a pretext for fame or any other "consequence".
 It's funny to appear in some newspapers, but that's all. Kenny and I haven't discussed it yet, but at the moment this is not what I want.
 Let's keep our normal lives for a while and let things happen naturally
 after all, the point is Kenny and I getting together, right?!
 Well anyway, no possibility has been discarded, we'll wait and see where this wave takes us.

                                                                                                  XoXo

What the hell

I really don't know how this is happening, we wake up and suddenly you are in a newspaper haha is so funny, my mom says she is ready for the interviews that are coming xP.

Every site says something different ...

1) in fact none of the people who appear in the video were my friends, are just random nice people who agreed to help me, (except my mother, my stepfather and my brother)

2) Kenny will spend 1 month here with me, not 10 days, 10 days we will just for a trip to a very heavenly place here in Brazil.

3) Kenny is coming on 31/11 , no 03/11.

this what we have for now folks: P

we had our 15 minutes of fame, but as Kenny says, this will pass soon and we will continue with our normal life (:

Click here to read the article straight on the website.

Source: http://www.nydailynews.com/

                                                                              XoXo

Are you f........ kidding me?

Now a Serbian (?) newspaper? Pfff

WTF ... How do they find such things?
Was hard to understand at all (google helped) but I found really cool ... at least I found out that my Serbian name is Džesika and Kenny is Kenija (P.S sounds a little girly) (P.S² Sorry schatje)

coooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooolllllllllllllllllllll

click here to read the article straight on the website.

Source: http://www.b92.net/


                                                                                          XoXo                   

Almost Hollywood stars ;D

Today I had a big surprise when seeing the intense traffic of this blog.
When I was trying to find out why and where so many people were coming from I run into this:

 

Oh wow , this is crazy :O how come we are in a newspaper? :O

I don't know where they found that Kenny was living in Belarus, haha he never even been there. But the important thing is that we are happy and  now the world knows we're engaged (PS: Except for my dad) (P.S² He'll kill Kenny), soon we will be  around the world handing out autographs HAHA.

 

 

 

 

click here to read the article straight on the website.

Source: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/

 

 

                                                                          XoXo





PMS

PMS ...

What can I tell you about that...well it is bad ,  :d
both for the girl as for the boyfriend, even from a distance.
I really hate it. Sometimes it makes us fight without really having problems.
Really sensitive, and than the flow of words begin... I know isn't meant like that, but they are said.
Sometimes the words hurt or makes the guy upset, even the words are caused by PMS so she doesn't really mean it.
For the guys out there...try keep calm,hold on and hope it will pass soon. Deep down she feels the same as without the stress, just it doesn't show :d
Sure you all know the situations....half hour ago saying she loves you and now saying she wants to punch you in the face ( always makes me think like huh??:d)

How is that when having a long distance relationship?...not much different I guess, just short answers, long waits...then almost getting killed for asking what she is doing:dGirls are hard to understand in general but when having PMS...:o:o:o really nothing is clear
they are nervous, anxious, rude but then again sweet, caring and again stressed and all.

Don't worry too much...it will pass and then you'll have your sweet girl back.
And well..girls will be girls :D

being in love

Hi there all,

Starting to get colder already in Belgium :o will be good to be in Brazil

Anyway, wasn't what is on my mind right now :d
You ever think about how real love feels?

You know that feeling when waking up the first thing that comes to mind is the person you love?
You know the feeling of wanting to spend every little second you have with the person?
Putting that person before almost everything( I know family comes first, but hey that person is part of the family:d), thinking you would die if something happened to him/her?
Sometimes when being mad saying things you don't really mean, but you do even you don't know why?
It makes you feel the juice is worth the squeeze?
She/he being your best friend, the one you trust.
People saying you are crazy spending all the time infront of the computer to talk to eachother...but in your mind you know that they are the crazy ones, not feeling such great desire and love.
even I know spending the time in real is the best, but isn't possible all the time
Hate it when fighting because of stupid things that aren't even needed
The feeling you get when looking at the sky...clouds passing by, wishing you were with that person right now
Seeing a plane pass by, wishing you were on it.
actually I could continue long time saying all these things..

This is how my beautifull girl (future wife) makes me feel like all the time.
Think that is a part of loving someone like crazy.
As long as you have these emotions coming to you, I'm sure you can survive all as a couple.
Wish you all could feel the same kind of love to your partner as I can feel to mine...
you would feel how real love feels like...

Groetjes

So in love

Watching the video over and over again :o
So amazing what she did (and she did say yes to me :d happy). People in Brazil are a lot nicer and very open to do such things. Belgians are cold and shy.
Nice to see we have so much support from people...from family and friends.  We have all it takes to make it...and we will make all for sure

  So easy to love Brazil ... another day closer to leaving Belgium ( sure won't miss it that much :p).

Once we get to october time will move faster I hope.

All is ready we just have to wait untill that calandar to hit 31 october , wish it was that day already!

What I plan on having next week:  vaccinations :p seems I'll need some or well the easy ones my normal doctor can give me I'll do this week maybe. Good thing I'm not scared of needles :p

That was it for now...going to talk to my beautifull girl (wife:d)


Groetjes

People wanted to get filmed :D

It was never a secret that the Brazilian people are very hospitable and warm. Kenny tried for 3 hours today recording a video for me at the mall but failed. I was at the mall for 40 minutes and then you see the result of those nice people who helped me today with much goodwill.
Thank you all for the support, encouragement and help.
I love being Brazilian!!!!!!!
I hope my answer is clear to you schatje. ;D

People don't want to get filmed, so something else:o

Hi there

Just was in the mall..wanting to test the Gopro asking people if they want to say : Kenny wants to marry Jéssica.But people are too scared if it's on video :( spend there long time and will go back there after this post to see if I find one soul besides my family that want to say this.
because I want to show her i'm serious with her and want her by my side forever
so in the little time I did this to her...to surprise her before she wakes up.
enjoy:

Don't mind my face:p having a headache:d
oh pff too late she already woke up:(
well anyway she will see and i'll see her reaction

I love you princess<3

Groetjes